How to write a book about your autistic child

There have been many books written by the parents of autistic children. I admit that I have read few of these parental accounts, knowing from the reviews and book descriptions that they would bore or irritate me, perhaps even anger me. I have enough to be angry about already. So I know less than many about how Clara Claiborne Park would would "use every stratagem we could invent to assail her [autistic daughter's] fortress, to beguile, entice, seduce her into the human condition" as described in her book, The Siege. I never got to read how Catherine Maurice's "two children were rescued from the tragedy of autism" (as described by the Amazon UK blurb) or grasp the irony of a woman writing of her anger with "professionals who ... prey on desperate parents by offering false hopes and anecdotal accounts of miracles" in her own version of just that, Let Me Hear Your Voice. And I certainly wasn't going to waste my time with Jenny McCartney's woeful Louder Than Words.

I have endured a novelised version of the parental autism story as described in gory detail here and I think I know enough about the genre to see that they all follow a particular template:

1. Baby is born
2. Everyone rejoices
3. Baby grows
4. Mum realises baby is somehow different, something is not quite right, or,
5. Baby develops entirely typically but is vaccinated after which Mum realises baby is somehow different, something is not quite right.
6. Mum struggles to get anyone to take her concerns seriously. Her husband might think she's worrying about nothing and that no child of his could possibly be anything less than perfect. All the doctors she encounters are callous and all the other professionals are harsh and unhelpful. Eventually one special therapist or teacher (but not a medic) comes along who understands and for the first time, really listens.
7. After much effort and heartache, Mum and Dad are devastated to learn that the explanation for all the child's problems is this terrible curse known as Autism.
8. Just so we know how hard their lives are, how terrible this Autism thing is, several examples of the child's terrible behaviour are described, the tantrums and self-harm, the strange humming and abnormal interest in trains. This makes the book "gritty" and "unflinching" in the newspaper book reviews and is generally thought of as a good thing.
9. The best way to garner sympathy and to dehumanise the afflicted child entirely is to describe in vivid detail, some time when the child hurt a member of the family. Mum must never write about any time when she (or any other adult with power over the child) lost her temper or lashed out at the child.
10. The warrior phase commences. Mum finds out stuff the doctors don't know, or didn't want her to know. She arms herself with superior knowledge, garnered from a motley crew of brave mavericks or comes up with some self directed plan, and goes medieval on the autism.
11. Mum is a lone crusader, challenging authority and staying strong and calm in the face of what to ordinary mortals would be insurmountable obstacles. But Mum reveals in her book, the real terror she felt, the depression and anxiety, the tears and sleepless nights, all due to the autism which has seized her child and holds him or her hostage.
12. The intervention phase commences. The child gets older and matures, hopefully with lots of love and good education as well. But the intervention is credited with effecting a miraculous cure.
13. The story ends by recalling just how far they have all come and how it would never have been possible without x, y or z (ABA, the companionship of a Golden Retriever or certain biomedical treatments). The child is said to be normal or recovered, as measured by a place in the Valhalla of this type of autism parent - mainstream school.

THE END.

I wrote a short version of this myself in my tale of the magic ketchup.
Does anyone know of any other books that fit the template?